Friday, November 15, 2013

Why Do I Want Meds? (subtitle: am i only masking reality?)

I keep putting myself into contests that I can't win.  I see it now.  I am setting myself up for failure.  And then I sulk in it.  But what I am really trying to do, is to see if my paranoia is real.  If my depression is justified.  To see if I have the right to be depressed.

I was tasked with finding myself a new desk for my new office.  I picked out a very nice, hard wood desk and sent the quote to my boss.  She called and asked if I "was serious".  I think that I work pretty hard here, and my skills are valuable.  And I have been at the company for going on seven years.  But I was quickly put in my place.  And at the time I was already in that place of worthlessness.  It didn't even seem to hurt.  I was so detached, it all rolled over me.

This morning was your day off.  And I knew you would spend the morning in bed with your toys.  I want so bad to be the one to satisfy you.  And maybe it's foolish of me to think that I can't satisfy you or that you don't want it.  So I offered myself to you for a lunchtime date.  You declined, and told me that you had some housework to do which I knew was bullshit.  But hell, look at me.  I am a mess.  I wouldn't want to have sex with me either.  And so I told you that in a text.  And you invited me out for a noontime date.  But I get it.  It's because you feel bad for me now.  Because I have tried to initiate sex with you for days, and you have declined.  Not because you want me there.  I am just a pity fuck.  But I need you so badly right now that I will accept this pitiful offer.  Is that wrong?

Yesterday I drove to the post office and bought a postcard with some change from my car.  I wrote an excerpt from my blog onto it, and then I mailed it to a website where it will be anonymously displayed.  It thought it would feel good doing it.  Because I felt like I was letting go of that haunting thought in my brain.  But I felt sick writing it and doodling on it.  It was a long walk to the mailbox.  And when I dropped it in, nothing changed.  I expected that I would feel better.  But it just worsened my mood.

I barely ate yesterday.  I put food into my mouth and it tastes rotten and I just want to spit it out.  I slowly ate a few pieces of pizza last night because I felt like I had to.  I had to look normal to my family, and my body was getting weak.  This morning I stepped onto the scale and could see that I had lost another five pounds.  The fat continues to roll away, and I am not sorry about that.  But even my face seems narrower all of a sudden and I don't know what I am becoming.  This morning I took a trip up six flights of stairs.  Because I feel like I am wasting away, and I don't want to be one of those people that collapse out of dehydration and starvation.  It was a test.  And while it was a hard trip up those stairs, I did it.  I was fine.  And it was even a little easier than in months past thanks to that weight I shed.

Yesterday I called my doctor to make sure that I still have an appointment for next week.  Maybe I should have moved it up.  Because I feel like I am dire need of some sort of antidepressant, ASAP.  Although, my paranoia doesn't want me to take the meds.  If this is reality, what good am I really doing by taking happy pills?  I'm still the same person.  Nothing changes.  My brain just stops sending me signals to remind me of what I am and what I have become.  And then every fleeting moment of bliss will be followed by my brain asking, "am I only enjoying myself because of the medication"?

And now it's lunchtime.  And I feel like I should be eating something, even though I have no desire to.  I obviously need food.  My body is weak, and my brain is starting to malfunction (does someone have a radio on?).  Maybe I should get a case of that stuff that old people take so that their skin doesn't fall off and their bones don't shatter.

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